Cosmopolitan (also known as: 100 New Tricks to Try in Bed, How To Make Him Notice You, Get Sex Hair Without the Sex) magazine has a "body language decoder" for guys. You click a tab, and they tell you what a guy means based on everything from whether he offers you his palm face up to what it means if he sleeps on his stomach.
So, according to Cosmo, all you have to do is observe your guy while he sleeps. Then "you'll discover tons of clues about his personality and how he feels about you."
Ladies, do not be a total psycho who is watching her boyfriend sleep. Do not question his affection for you if he angles his body towards the North when you're at the movies. I'm not saying there's nothing to body language, but if you're a normal, social human being you respond subconsciously to the body language of others.
It's this kind of over-analysis that lowers our self-esteem and makes us question everything in our relationships. Spend time being in your relationship, not analyzing it.
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