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Friday, February 12, 2010

Cut off contact

My friend's boyfriend of three years, who she planned to marry, just broke up with her. When we were out the other night, she drunk dialed him, crying and telling him she still loved him and missed him. I was driving us home, but I prioritized. I let go of the wheel, turned, took her phone out of her hands and hung up. She wasn't happy then (Direct quote: "That...that wasn't even him! You don't know me!"), but she was grateful in the morning.

Bottom line, the best thing to do with a recent ex is cut off contact. If you keep talking to this person, feelings will linger, mistakes will be made, and someone will get hurt. So start the silent treatment.

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